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 KEISHA’S DILEMMA

 

Reader’s Guide and Curriculum

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Keisha made bad decision because she did not think about the future. She only thought about the present. Teenagers should think in abstract terms instead of concrete terms. Smart teenagers understand that for every action there is a consequence, and that consequence may last forever.

 

i.  Goal setting: Set a short-term goal (example: make better grades, make the team, advance in band or chorus, be a better son or daughter, better sister or brother, pass standardized test, graduate)

 

ON YOUR OWN PAPER

1.     Choose your goal. Write it out in a complete sentence.

2.     Write at least three behaviors that will help you achieve your goal.

3.     Copy down things you will have to do to prepare yourself.

4.     Figure out a way to measure your progress.

5.     Start your plan today and write down the actual date that you will accomplish your goal.

6.     Plan a reward for yourself for accomplishing your goal.

 

 

ii.  Goal setting: Set a long-term goal (example: what do you want to be when you grow up,

          where are you going to college, where will you work, how will you become a successful adult). If you don’t   

          know what you want to be when you grow up- what DON’T you want to be? Don’t let what people think affect    

          your answer.

 

ON YOUR OWN PAPER

      1.  Choose your goal. Write it out in a complete sentence.

2.     Write at least three behaviors that will help you achieve your goal.

3.     Copy down things you will have to do to prepare yourself.

4.     Figure out a way to measure your progress.

5.     Start your plan today and write down the actual date that you will accomplish your goal.

6.     Plan a reward for yourself for accomplishing your goal.

 

iii. true/false

Each of the following statements is either true or false. If the statement is true write the word true, and if it is false write the word false.

 

1.     Teenagers make choices everyday that either hurt or harm them.

2.     Every young person will have sex before they graduate?

3.     Some ways to deal with emotional problems or stress is to talk to a teacher, write, sing, or punch a pillow.

4.     Every teenager will drink alcohol or smoke before they graduate high school.

5.     The decisions you make today will determine your tomorrow.

6.     Most high school couples end up getting married so it’s okay to do the things that married couples do when you are in love.

7.     One of the biggest responsibilities of a teenager is working out an individual identity.

8.     It is impossible to be a virgin when you get married.

9.     Herpes and HIV are Sexually Transmitted Disease that cannot be cured.

10.  Marijuana is not really a drug.

 

iv. ACTIVITES

 

1.     Amber gave a sexually transmitted disease to Clarence. One out of four sexually active teens have a STD and don’t know it. There are four types of sexual activity: vaginal, anal, digital (your fingers), oral. Any of these methods can give you a STD. List places or organizations in your town that test and treat sexually transmitted diseases.

2.     Keisha faces dilemma after dilemma. Name a problem that you have and work it through these steps: Write down the problem. Brainstorm possible solutions to the problem. Think about each solution individually. Ask somebody you trust his or her opinion, and finally choose a solution.

3.     Keisha’s father says that music videos are bad. Write a paragraph telling why you agree or disagree with Mr. Martin.

4.     Whenever Keisha was about to make a bad decision, she would hear her father’s voice, her teacher’s voice, or her Youth Pastor’s voice. Whenever you are about to make a bad decision what’s going through your head?

5.     Write a description of the person you think you will be in ten years.

6.     Do your friends build you up?  Do you have good friends? Write yourself a letter telling yourself how great you are.

7.     Your parents probably want you to have a better life than they have. How will you make this happen?

8.     Write a play about a person who makes a bad decision, but decides to change their life and live happily ever after.

9.     Look through magazines and make a collage of emotions. Then chose an emotion to write two paragraphs about. The first paragraph telling why you felt that way, and the second paragraph telling how you dealt with it or how you should have dealt with it.

10.  Write an essay about a person in your life (you can change their name), that have made bad choices and now their life is rough because of it. Tell what they could have done differently and what they can do now to make a better life for themselves.

 

V. using vocabulary Using the vocabulary below write a song, rap, or poem.

 

1. Stereotypes- fixed imagines of how everyone in a particular groups is thought to be, images and thoughts that do not recognized an person’s individuality.

 

2. Drive- motivated to proof someone wrong. A person known as a go-getter.

 

3. Commitment- a decision maintained for the long term; a kept promise.

 

4. Thoughts- those mental images of which a person is always aware of

 

5. Values- a person’s set of rules for behavior; right and wrong

 

6. Confrontation-  an interaction in which a person expresses feelings to another person.

 

7. Hormone-  a chemical that serves as a messenger.

 

8. Abstinence- refraining completely from a particular behavior.

 

9. Drink- with respect to alcoholic beverages: 1 can of beer, 3 ounces of wine, 1 wine cooler, 1 ounce of liquor.

 

10. Marriage-  the institution that joins a man and a woman by contract for purpose of creating and maintaining a family.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

KEISHA’S DILEMMA

 

WILLIE SPEARS